True angels destroy not men,
but the falseness in them.








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Dear King Albert, I recommend this beautiful text about the
‘Persian’ King Cyrus of 2500 years ago, as an example of
what justice and wisdom can be in a part of the world
now so much influenced by religious fascism (Iran).

Iran 2500 years ago and today
quote from  www.faithfreedom.org :
The first Charter of Human Rights written 2500 years ago

‘’I am Kourosh (Cyrus), great king,…Now that I put the crown of the kingdom of Iran,
Babylon, and the nations of the four directions on the head with the help of Ahura,
I announce that I will respect the traditions, customs and religions of the nations
of my empire and never let any of my governors and subordinates look down on
or insult them while I am alive. …I will impose my monarchy on no nation.
Each is free to accept it, and if any one of them rejects it, I never resolve on war to reign.
While I am the king…I will never let anyone oppress others,… I will never let anyone
take possession of movable and landed properties of the others by force or without
compensation. While I am alive, I will prevent unpaid, forced labour. Today,
I announce that everyone is free to choose a religion.…
No one could be penalised for his or her relatives' faults…Cyrus the Great".
(Source: www.faithfreedom.org)

AND in our time, (1981) . . . Khomeini's speech on the day of celebration of
the birth of Muhammad . . .
The real Day of God is the day that Amir al mo’menin drew his sword and
slaughtered all the khavarej and killed them from the first to the last.
The Days of God are when Allah, the gracious, the almighty, causes an earthquake
.It is when He slaps on the face.It is when he causes a hurricane.He whips this people
to become humans. If the Amir al mo’menin wanted to be tolerant, he would not have
drawn his sword killing 700 people in one go.
In our prisons we have more of the same kind of people who are corrupt.
If we do not kill them, each one of them that gets out, will become a murderer! They don’t become humans.
Why do you Mullahs only go after the ordinances of prayer and fasting?
Why do you only read the Quranic verses of mercy and do not read the verses of killing?
Quran says; kill, imprison! Why are you only clinging to the part that talks about mercy?
Mercy is against God.
Mehrab means the place of war, the place of fighting. Out of the mehrabs,
wars should proceed, Just as all the wars of Islam used to proceeded out of the mehrabs.
The prophet has [had] sword to kill people..
Our [Holy] Imams were quite military men. All of them were warriors.
They used to wield swords; they used to kill people.
We need a Khalifa who would chop hands, cut throat, stone people
In the same way that the messenger of God used to chop hands, cut throats,
and stone people.In the same way that he massacred the Jews of Bani Qurayza
because they were a bunch of discontent people.
If the Prophet used to order to burn a house or exterminate a tribe that was justice.
The lives of people must be secured through punishment.
Because, the protection of the masses lies beneath these very punitive executions.
With just a few years of imprisonment things don’t get fixed.
You must put aside these childish sentimentalism.
We believe that the accused essentially does not have to be tried. He or she must just be killed. Only their identity is to be established and then they should be killed."
(Source: www.faithfreedom.org) Khomeini's speech on the day of celebration of the birth of Muhammad . . .

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  Love is timeless.- In timelessness all humans are equal.
Only in time we may differ.

All people are essentially equal, as in fact all conscious life is equal,
since any consciousness in a creature is just consciousness.
Only the objects of consciousness
can infinitely differ from each other.

In the same way, thought is just thought,
no matter how many things it is thinking..
Only the objects of thought can differ, infinitely, from each other.

All human consciousness consists of the same elements:
an element of awareness, of love, and an element of thought, of ego.

Love is a form of consciousness, as consciousness is a form of love,
but though thought forms may arise from love,
thought forms themselves are not necessarily
forms of consciousness, nor forms of love,
for they may cause illusion and separation and darkness
rather than awareness, union and light.

Human consciousness consists of the same elements
in one degree or another: consciousness and thought,
(love and ego). It is only the proportion of these in people.
in time, which may differ.

In a given moment, one might manifest more or less clear awareness.
more or less prejudice, false or unclear thought.

The personality or ego is a thought form.
Even our physical form is a materialization of our personality,
of our thought forms.
What we call egoism is not consciousness but a reaction
of a thought form, like the reflection of an unclear mirror.

Though we can differ infinitely from each other in thoughts,
in ideas about what is and in beliefs,
in awareness we are one.
Beliefs are many, love is one.

Because thought forms may differ infinitely,
so long as we see our identity as being the form,
the ego, the nationality, the religion,
we will be in conflict with other beings, other life forms,
with people of other nationalities, other religions.

The universe is the subject and the object in itself.

When the object of consciousness is consciousness itself,
it reaches peace within itself and in relation to the
other consciousness in the universe,
which are all part of its higher self.

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Beliefs are many,
truth, love, is but one.


True wisdom destroys not men,
true angels do not kill the evil men ,
  but the falseness and the evil in them.
...
The greatest enemy of man is his own proud arrogance
or pride and love of power,
and it is not through military victory over others
but through self awareness
that victory over ourselves is won.
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Terrorists are not afraid of bombs, they are afraid of questions.
Spiritually powerful people are also not afraid of bombs ,
but to harm or do injustice to anyone,
what terrorists are not afraid of.
Wishing all the best to you. 
End of a long attempt of a dialogue with a fanatic Muslim



This is an extract from a dialogue on the web with a fanatic Muslim.

10 January 2008/ Question by Erci  11/24/2007
*-SeLamun ALeykum,  Which woman are stoned?
You mean every woman in the Islam geT Stoned?
You know, I know so many Muslim girls and women
and non of them are stoned. About which woman
are you talking about?
Do you know a woman who get stoned? 
  Erci
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Answer by van Chapman:

Here is your answer for always, dear Erci,
about the contradiction, with love in the Islam:
*
Warning! This is an extremely sick and disgusting punishment,
and just watching this video can make you weak or possibly
give you nausea and shock for several days.
Please do not watch if you are weak-hearted.
Watch at your own risk Click here below
*
Subject: Video of Stoning to Death - Islam in action
http://bibleprobe.com/stoningtodeath.htm
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November 2006
Letter sent to politicians and the press
If any one thinks this text is against the Islam or Judaism or Christianity, one is wrong.
It is the love for power itself what degenerates the Islam, as well as Judaism and Christianity,
any religion or regime, or in that respect, any relationship.
The power of love is the power of clarity, light and progress.
The love for power, the power of darkness, decadence:
The love for power degrades the power of love.
Answer to the ambition of Islam to conquer the world.*
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Muslims everywhere ask not to be discriminated,
ask respect for their belief, for what they understand or do not understand the Islam to be.
But the holy book for the Islam, the Koran, teaches to discriminate people according to their belief,
to divide the world in believers or unbelievers. And that has nothing to do with love.
Love is the only unifying power or Re-uniting force,
or if you want: the only true re-ligare, or religion.
In love there is absolutely no discrimination of people for being a believer or an unbeliever.
Unbelievers are not only humans but can be even more human than believers.
What also needs to be understood by believers is that
not to respect what someone believes, does not mean disrespect for the believer.
In the end what matters is the sincerity and the quality of the heart:
someone may have good heart but false beliefs, or otherwise, have good belief but a cruel heart.
Is the Islam Law or Barbarism? What is a greater crime, to steal something or to mutilate people?
For a woman to leave her husband for another , or to stone someone to death?
To punish a fault by committing a greater crime, or even an equal crime,
as we can read in the Koran, is not the justice of love and wisdom.
When Mohammed was yet not in power, he said 'To each one his belief,
'There is no compulsion in religion'. But when Mohammed came to power, he divided people,
discriminated people for their belief
and made his religion compulsory.  (.See Call to the Muslims of the World from a
Group of Freethinkers
and Humanists of Muslim Origins, (Google),
or  http://www.naturestudio.net/ letter of humanists
Wisdom, true civilisation is not to destroy humans, even if they are considered evil, but to destroy the evil in them.
If Allah who was supposed to be omnipotent, to be able to do all things, was not able to create understanding
in his unbelievers but   advocated tyranny, slavery, rape and butchery of people, he was the product of barbaric
and not of a civilized mind.

In teaching to punish a crime with a much greater crime, in the name of the Most Merciful and wise ,
the Islam is a contradiction.

It is hypocrisy of a Muslim to say in the Islam one may never fight war against or kill women.
According to http://Forums.brisinst.org.au  "(Koranic text straight from Allah gives
Muslim men the right to rape captured females (suras, 70.30, 4.24, 23.1-7, 33.50-52)
Mohammad allowed his followers to rape women captured in war. No reasonable person would accept that…)";
According to some Islamic traditions, a woman may be stoned to death for leaving their husband for another man,
while a man may have up to 5 wives and as many as slaves "his right hand possesses"
to use sexually at his will (rape).
Muslims may rage, but Indeed we can ask , what did Mohammed brought of new, spiritually?
While Jesus changed that trend of stoning women for adultery, by teaching forgiveness,
Mohammed's Islam brought the revival of the Old Testament's barbaric "an eye for an eye", or worse...

While Jesus changed that trend of stoning women for adultery, by teaching forgiveness,
Mohammed's Islam brought the revival of the Old Testament's barbaric "an eye for an eye", or worse...

No one is a mere object or a property of another, in the eyes of the justice of love.
(Sometimes a marriage has nothing to do with love, like in the forced marriages.
Then, to keep a false marriage by force is inhuman.
So there is tyranny even in Jesus or Christianity,
if for example, any married person is prohibited to divorce.)

In the Islam a man may not humble himself to his women, even when he is wrong,
……… ***Koran 23: 1- 7 Successful indeed are the believers,
Those who humble themselves in their prayers; Who avoid vain talk; Who are active in deeds of charity;
And who guard their modesty - Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond, or (the captives)
whom their right hands possess,- for (in their case) they are free from blame,

Tyrants, as the mafia, want no discussion.
One may be punished or mutilated, beheaded or killed for criticising, for disagreeing with them.
Mohammed did just that, and this has nothing to do with love for humanity.
Wikipedia: Asma bint Marwan From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
search Asma bint Marwan  is a female poet who lived in Hijaz in medieval Arabia during the life of Muhammad.
  Her affair is first written in Ibn Ishaq's "Sirat Rasul Allah" or the Biography of the Prophet of God,
  the oldest and primary biography of Muhammad.

Another source that described the death of Asma bint Marwan:
From Ibn Sa'd's Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabir, translated by S. Moinul Haq, volume 2, page 31.
"SARIYYAH OF UMAYR IBN ADI"

Beating on women for disobeying their husbands, violating women of unbelievers in war time, stoning a women for giving herself to another man, killing someone for deserting the belief is not self defence but an unthinkable crime of violation of humanity.

If Muslims have to agree with all what is written in the Koran even if it goes against their consciousness, the Islam is a violation of Humanity!
When they are not just innocently ignorant, Muslims I met try to deny or hide (Al-Takiyya) from unbelievers (and from others who they want to seduce to the Islam,) this tyrannical aspect in the Koran.
If someone thinks people only respect what they fear, and out of love for power create an authority or God who 'will instil terror on the hearts of the unbelievers",who becomes a tyrant and a butcher of people, than he has forgotten that there are free and true and intelligent people in this world, who do not respect tyranny nor fear brutal force,
but have respect for the truth, for love and justice alone.

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"Islam is the only religion which preaches that those who practice religious violence"
will automatically enter heaven..
"Very often apologetics claim that Islam is a religion of peace and there is no compulsion.
Yet, punishment of an apostate in Islam is, of course, death penalty".




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What I try to say to this Muslim,
(even if he denies all evident violence in his holy book,) is this:
One does not clear someone's consciousness,
nor brings order to someone's thoughts
by cutting off his head.




Light and peace to you my friend.
Wishing all the best in life to you,
van Chapman








Dear King Albert, I recommend this beautiful text about the
'Persian' King Cyrus of 2500 years ago, as an example of
what justice and wisdom can be in a part of the world
now so much influenced by religious fascism (Iran).
Iran 2500 years ago and today


quote from  www.faithfreedom.org :

The first Charter of Human Rights written 2500 years ago
''I am Kourosh (Cyrus), great king,…Now that I put the crown of the kingdom of Iran,
Babylon, and the nations of the four directions on the head with the help of Ahura,
I announce that I will respect the traditions, customs and religions of the nations
of my empire and never let any of my governors and subordinates look down on
or insult them while I am alive. …I will impose my monarchy on no nation.
Each is free to accept it, and if any one of them rejects it, I never resolve on war to reign.
While I am the king…I will never let anyone oppress others,… I will never let anyone
take possession of movable and landed properties of the others by force or without
compensation. While I am alive, I will prevent unpaid, forced labour. Today,
I announce that everyone is free to choose a religion.…
No one could be penalised for his or her relatives' faults…Cyrus the Great".
(Source: www.faithfreedom.org)

AND in our time, (1981) . . . Khomeini's speech on the day of celebration of
the birth of Muhammad . . .



The real Day of God is the day that Amir al mo'menin drew his sword and
slaughtered all the khavarej and killed them from the first to the last.
The Days of God are when Allah, the gracious, the almighty, causes an earthquake
.It is when He slaps on the face.It is when he causes a hurricane.He whips this people
to become humans. If the Amir al mo'menin wanted to be tolerant, he would not have
drawn his sword killing 700 people in one go.
In our prisons we have more of the same kind of people who are corrupt.
If we do not kill them, each one of them that gets out, will become a murderer! They don't become humans.
Why do you Mullahs only go after the ordinances of prayer and fasting?
Why do you only read the Quranic verses of mercy and do not read the verses of killing?
Quran says; kill, imprison! Why are you only clinging to the part that talks about mercy?
Mercy is against God.
Mehrab means the place of war, the place of fighting. Out of the mehrabs,
wars should proceed, Just as all the wars of Islam used to proceeded out of the mehrabs.
The prophet has [had] sword to kill people..
Our [Holy] Imams were quite military men. All of them were warriors.
They used to wield swords; they used to kill people.
We need a Khalifa who would chop hands, cut throat, stone people
In the same way that the messenger of God used to chop hands, cut throats,
and stone people.In the same way that he massacred the Jews of Bani Qurayza
because they were a bunch of discontent people.
If the Prophet used to order to burn a house or exterminate a tribe that was justice.
The lives of people must be secured through punishment.
Because, the protection of the masses lies beneath these very punitive executions.
With just a few years of imprisonment things don't get fixed.
You must put aside these childish sentimentalism.
We believe that the accused essentially does not have to be tried.
He or she must just be killed.
Only their identity is to be established and then they should be killed."

(Source: www.faithfreedom.org)

Khomeini's speech on the day of celebration of the birth of Muhammad . . .


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Love is timeless.- In timelessness all humans are equal.
Only in time we may differ.
All people are essentially equal, as in fact all conscious life is equal,
since any consciousness in a creature is just consciousness.
Only the objects of consciousness
can infinitely differ from each other.
In the same way, thought is just thought,
no matter how many things it is thinking..
Only the objects of thought can differ, infinitely, from each other.
All human consciousness consists of the same elements:
an element of awareness, of love, and an element of thought, of ego.
Love is a form of consciousness, as consciousness is a form of love,
but though thought forms may arise from love,
thought forms themselves are not necessarily
forms of consciousness, nor forms of love,
for they may cause illusion and separation and darkness
rather than awareness, union and light.
Human consciousness consists of the same elements
in one degree or another: consciousness and thought,
(love and ego). It is only the proportion of these in people.
in time, which may differ.
In a given moment, one might manifest more or less clear awareness.
more or less prejudice, false or unclear thought.
The personality or ego is a thought form.
Even our physical form is a materialization of our personality,
of our thought forms.
What we call egoism is not consciousness but a reaction
of a thought form, like the reflection of an unclear mirror.
Though we can differ infinitely from each other in thoughts,
in ideas about what is and in beliefs,
in awareness we are one.
Beliefs are many, love is one.
Because thought forms may differ infinitely,
so long as we see our identity as being the form,
the ego, the nationality, the religion,
we will be in conflict with other beings, other life forms,
with people of other nationalities, other religions.
The universe is the subject and the object in itself.
When the object of consciousness is consciousness itself,
it reaches peace within itself and in relation to the
other consciousness in the universe,
which are all part of its higher self.
van Chapman www.naturestudio.net


Beliefs are many,
truth, love, is but one.



"Islam is the only religion which preaches that those who practice religious violence"
will automatically enter heaven..
"Very often apologetics claim that Islam is a religion of peace and there is no compulsion.
Yet, punishment of an apostate in Islam is, of course, death penalty".





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Mohammedaanse  trouwpartij.doc 
Mohammedlike wedding

From: Graldine to Erci:


Here is the information I mentioned to you I got on Internet:
Mohammedaanse  trouwpartij .pps
The real perversion from the prophet of God who told to stone people for their sins.
(Mohammedlike Wedding)

Received this account by e mail about a barbaric tradition still existing in Muslim lands.
An integer spirit or philosophy is to defend the justice and the truth, not to defend oneself or one's philosophy or belief at the cost of justice and truth.
Believers who do this are not integer.
"Peace unto him",  is what some Muslims like to say when they speak of their prophet, but they deny or do not want to admit the negative behaviour and teachings from his life history and work.
According to the history of the prophet Mohammed,  he took a child in marriage: what is a justification for paedophile, a crime in modern human right and international justice.
An integer spirit is not the one who is self-defending at the cost of anyone and anything, at the cost of people's lives. An integer spirit does not justify everything in someone's life and history, not even if that one is  him or herself; a friend or a guru, a "so called"  "the prophet of God", or "God Himself". Peace unto him' , what  Muslims like to say when they speak of their prophet,
Whoever, whatever, preaches you to destroy people because they 'sinned', Like the Koran does, do not teach  true spiritual integrity, philosophy or wisdom , so they cannot help eradicate evil from the world.


Wisdom is to destroy the evil in people, not people themselves.
Those who justify  as "self defence"  the atrocities in any individual or group or nation or  culture against others, specially for   patriotic  or religious fanaticism, are not really concerned with Justice nor truth.
won  when we do evil to the one who has done , evil to us, when we lie to the one who lies to us,  when we torture the one who tortured us. evil, the devil has won, not love.
The meaning of wisdom force and justice is not only to protect people from the evil outside but also from the evil inside them. the evil we could do to others.
The only way to win over evil is to awaken to the consciousness of love, not destroy, kill and send people to hell.
A  Prophet or God who does  this is a false prophet or God. Fanatic Muslims seem not to get  this.

To love our enemy means to save rather than destroy someone, however he has sinned.
As I before I say there is no justice without love, there is no love without justice.
One cannot win over the devil by acting like one, by cutting of someone's hand for stealing or stoning or torturing people alive for having sinned as so called  "holy books" like the old Testament and the Koran have wrongly preached in name of God.

There is no greater sin or injustice than a sin committed in name of God.

And 'Peace unto him" or anyone' , will only be to stop justifying the false and evil In ourselves, in the other, in what the  Holy books and prophets taught ; recognize it, and grow above it.


From van Chapman
Dialogue with Erci , 30 June 2010

Further reading: Something else to ponder about:
Capricious Revelation of the Qur'an  http://answering-islam.org/BehindVeil/btv9.html
Contradictions in the Qur'an
http://answering-islam.org/BehindVeil/btv11.html
Historical errors are so many in the Qur'an that we cannot cover them all, but we will be content to point out some very obvious examples: http://answering-islam.org/BehindVeil/btv7.htm
the Loss of Many Parts of It.
On page 131 of his book, "El-Sheaa and Correction", the contemporary Muslim scholar, Dr. Mosa-El-Mosawy, makes this frank confession,
"Those who adopt the notion of the perversion of the Qur'an are present among all different Islamic groups, but the majority of them come from the El-Sheaa scholars." 
Perversion of Qur'an is an unimaginable notion to the lay Muslim because the Scholars of Islam are hiding this truth from being published or becoming known. http://answering-islam.org/BehindVeil/btv12.html




Here is the information I mentioned to you I got on Internet:
Mohammedaanse  trouwpartij .pps
The real perversion from the prophet of God who told to stone people for their sins.
(Mohammedlike Wedding)

LOVE OR BELIEF?
Mohammedaanse trouwpartij.pps



















Response of a Muslim Erci,  in a e mail dialogue with me.
Today he should come for his portrait.
I will see if he will accept to be filmed while he says to me the 'smoesjes' he likes to say  to try to  convince others of the Islam...

Will he now try to deny evidence of any wrong  from Muslim practices the this paedophilia  account : Mohammedaanse trouwpartij.pp ?
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Watch at your own risk Click here below
Subject: Video of Stoning to Death - Islam in action

http://bibleprobe.com/stoningtodeath.htm
This is what Jesus said regarding Stoning to death....
According to the Gospel of John, the Jewish Priests (Pharisees), in an attempt to discredit Jesus, brought a woman charged with adultery before him. The Pharisees reminded Jesus that adultery was punishable by stoning under Law of Moses and challenged Jesus to judge the woman so that they might then accuse him of disobeying the law. Jesus thought for a moment and then replied, "He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone at her." The people crowded around him were so touched by their own consciences that they departed. When Jesus found himself alone with the woman, he asked her who were her accusers. She replied, "No man, lord." Jesus then said, "Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more."


True angels destroy not men, but the falseness in them.
Dear Muslim, is Mohammed a Prophet or a Terrorist?
If your prophet ordered this, my friend, then he is the false prophet.
Go on Internet to the film on what your prophet ordered and tell me if you still honestly say to Mohammed "Peace unto him!",
The threat the teaching on Love of Jesus
represents to Mohamed: 
When Peter, took the sword to defend his master, Matthew 26:52 Jesus said to him, "Put your sword back into its place; for all those who take up the sword shall perish by the sword." Jesus teaching in this aspect, would mean Mohamed would pay for every cruelty he did or ordered to do in his bloody Jihad in name of God: kill the disbelievers wherever we find them" Koran(2:191)"
that is, no "peace unto him"
who predicts hate and horrors of violence like this,
no treading the way to Heaven but to Hell.
Mohammed was probably aware of this, what would make him fear the authority of Jesus advising  his believers not  to make friendship with Christians(5:51). 
No, I am not sick, Erci, but this belief of yours is sickening.
Video of Muslims Stoning People to Death
for more evidence Another link
http://www.apostatesofislam.com/media/stoning.htm
End of a long attempt of a dialogue with a fanatic Muslim
11/01/2008    "A man may never kill a woman", pretends your doctrine, "A man is the protector of women", you say naively. But if your prophet orders stoning, this more cruel torture the lowest beast could not inflict upon a living being, then this is a lie.
I have gone into all this before, my friend Erci.
Read our debate on the web.I believe in love, not in something because it is written in a bookor Jesus said or Mohammed.
I told you this before. True love is the only rule for a spiritually aware person,
not for a barbaric fanatical stupid criminal like these who commit this act.
Look at the proof of the love of Mohamed for people in the video I sent and praise his "compassion"...
Mohamed loved a rule, his rule, more than he loved people.
Marriage can be just an institution.
If you believe in sin, marriage can also be a sin,
just look at your prophet: he himself married a 9 year old.
That is Paedophilia. But it was officially OK.!
If you believe in adultery, he had more than 5 wives:
that is officialised adultery; (officialised only for men, for women could be stoned for it by your barbaric prophet).
Love does not depend on the institution of marriage.
One can love and not be married, or vice versa. 
Mohammed could have stoned a person for loving truly someone
above his rules.
Jesus did not condemn the woman who he saved from being stoned for adultery. Jesus was infinitely superior to Mohamed, though I see also in the teachings of Jesus serious contradictions.
I told you before about the barbaric practices in the old testament which Jesus has changed to more compassionate and more humane ones, while your prophet kept himself to the barbaric laws of an eye (or many eyes) for an eye.
An incoherence of Jesus was ever to have praised the belief of Moses
and the prophets of an eye for an eye, with whom
through the light of love.he disagreed,
To say one may not swear, but if one marries one does not sin,
as Jesus taught, is an incoherence, because one must swear
never to leave the partner for another in a Christian Marriage.
So what he said that if one marries one does not sin is Jewish law
from the old testament which made no more sense if Love is God.
What matters is love.
Love is God, said the same Biblical Jesus.
Marriage is an institution. Love has not to do with it.
One couple can be married and not love each other,
one couple might be not married but love each other.
Do you not not dare to be sincere and see this contradiction
for fear of not believing?
What I try to say to this Muslim,
(even if he denies all evident violence in his holy book,) is this:
One does not clear someone's consciousness,
nor brings order to someone's thoughts
by cutting off his head.


"Islam is the only religion which preaches that those who practice religious violence"
will automatically enter heaven..
"Very often apologetics claim that Islam is a religion of peace and there is no compulsion.
Yet, punishment of an apostate in Islam is, of course, death penalty".
LOVE OR BELIEF?
Truth can make us free indeed, even of beliefs.

Still I trust the spirit of love,
the only one I call Holy Spirit.



Video of Muslims Stoning People to Death
for more evidence Another link
http://www.apostatesofislam.com/media/stoning.htm
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